the update:
i'm still messing around with seri. it's a long story that i'm sure you don't want to hear about. frankly, i bore myself complaining about this and not doing anything to stop it. i'm not as emotional about it. i've actually been weening myself off of him. so now i'm the chick that sleeps with taken men. it's awesome. i hate myself a little for that.
food is still the enemy. but a little less so. i did a liquid detox for 3 weeks that kicked the purging into high gear. the purging gave me a license to cheat. i could eat what i wanted and get rid of it which meant that i still did ok on the detox. i'm stupid really. so i finished with that and i lost a pant and shirt size. so i look better than i did, but haven't had a chance to really get used to it yet. and i still feel as fat ever. sometimes even fatter which is strange. i don't think i'll ever be right. i thought if i got down to 145 i'd be fine, but i touched that weight and thought "135 is just around the corner". not cool. i don't know where i'll stop.
got hit on by two married men this weekend. one is my friend's husband and the other doesn't wear a ring. crazy. my friend's husband just wouldn't leave me alone. and he kept saying that i needed to just do it. that she would never find out and i didn't need to be afraid of her. so crazy. apparently there's a sign on my forehead that says that i'll do any married or engaged within 5 miles. whatever. the other guy, i knew liked me but i didn't realize that he was married because he never wears a ring. i don't understand that. but that's me.
other than that, everything's great. i talked to a girl that does the kind of counseling that i want to do and found that it's community/crisis counseling. so that's exciting. i'm looking at different programs now to see what would be the best fit. i'm scared shitless to be back in school, but i'm going back - i really am.
so that's life as we know it. a lot stupid, a little content, and a little scary.
